And just when you thought the story of Tiffany Tatum couldn’t get any more interesting… Hang tight, because we’re diving into even juicier topics. From her personal relationships to navigating friendships in the industry, Part 2 is here to reveal it all.
Ready? Let’s go! 😏
Tommy Sy: So… you mentioned that you liked girls, and you like girls even today. Did you ever have a relationship with a girl?
Tiffany Tatum: No, no, because I never had Tinder or those kinds of things where you can easily meet people. Sometimes, I’ve talked to a few girls about maybe getting together, but then I felt they just wanted my money, which was funny! I don’t want to be a sugar mommy for anyone—boys, girls, anyone! So, instead, I have my dog, and I’m spending all my money on him. But I’m open to trying a relationship with a girl for a bit… though I’d need a guy long-term. 😅
Tommy Sy: You’re close friends with Amira Adara, right? Is it possible to maintain a solid friendship in this industry? You both have won awards together, but what’s your relationship with her like?
Tiffany Tatum: We’re really close. I don’t think we’re in competition with each other or with any other girl, to be honest. Each of us is different. Even if there are 20 blondes and 42 brunettes, everyone’s unique. I know some girls feel competitive, but I believe we should support each other more. That’s probably why Amirah and I got so close.
When I was just starting, a lot of producers would say, “Do you know Amirah Adara? She’s also Hungarian and very talented. If you look up to her, maybe one day you can be like her.” I didn’t take it as competition; I took it as encouragement. And, you know, Amira has this big heart—she’s always helping people. She could see that I wasn’t trying to take anything from her, so we just ended up supporting each other rather than feeling competitive. 😊
Tommy Sy: So, usually, you work with someone and then it’s a quick “Hi, bye” after the job. But with Amirah, it’s different. How is it working with someone who’s also your friend? Does that change things on set?
Tiffany Tatum: With Amirah, it’s like she’s my “work girlfriend.” I’m genuinely happy when we can have scenes together because I know what makes her feel good. I want to give her pleasure because I know how she enjoys it. 😊 It’s not something I even think about consciously; it just happens naturally.
Tommy Sy: Makes sense. Knowing your partner’s preferences might add that extra spark to the scene since you both know each other so well.
Tiffany Tatum: Yeah, exactly. But that actually applies to a lot of partners I’ve worked with over the years. You learn what they like, what they don’t. Maybe she doesn’t like her nipples touched, or he prefers a certain way. It’s a bit like that with Amirah, but also deeper because we genuinely care about each other.
Source: Tiffany Tatum’s Instagram
Tommy Sy: Looking back, do you have any regrets? Anything you’d have done differently?
Tiffany Tatum: No major regrets, really. Everything happened for a reason, even the hard parts. I’m happy with where I am. The only thing I’d change is how my family and friends found out. I wish I could have told them myself, especially because I have such strong relationships with them. They weren’t shocked about the work itself; they were hurt that I hadn’t shared it with them. I get it, and I was sad about it too. But, now, everything’s good between us, and I couldn’t be happier. 💖
Tommy Sy: So, your family and friends support you now? That’s wonderful.
Tiffany Tatum: Yes! They’re supportive, and I’m really grateful for that.
Tommy Sy: One thing people often misunderstand is the difference between working in front of the camera in the adult industry and other jobs in the sex industry. What’s your take on that?
Tiffany Tatum: Porn is like creating something—a product. It’s not just about going to have sex; it’s a whole experience. For me, escorting feels more dangerous because you don’t always know the client well, and you’re not in control the way you are on a set.
Plus, we do health testing every two weeks to stay safe and professional. Porn feels like a family; I have a team I trust. Escorting, for me, is only about money, and I’d only consider it if I were in a really desperate situation.
Tommy Sy: You make a product—like a movie—with a purpose, right?
Tiffany Tatum: Exactly! It’s more fulfilling. And with OnlyFans now, even though I could make good money, I’d rather shoot with professional companies. I enjoy being around people, the makeup, the sets… it feels like family. I feel safe because I know nothing will happen that I don’t want, and if something’s not right, I can speak up. 😊
Source: Tiffany Tatum’s Instagram
Tommy Sy: I heard you and Amirah have matching tattoos. What’s the story behind that?
Tiffany Tatum: Yes! We got diamond tattoos together. It’s a symbol of our friendship and our shared agency. It’s more than just friendship—it’s a part of our journey in this industry. 💎
Tommy Sy: Now that you’ve been in the industry for a while, what advice would you give to newcomers?
Tiffany Tatum: Be 100% sure you want to do this. It’s not the “easy path” some think it is. It’s demanding on every level—mental, emotional, physical. If you’re only in it for the money, you probably won’t last long. Some girls come in, make money, and leave without building anything lasting. Be brave, follow your heart, and know this industry can be a rewarding career, but it’s also tough. It’s a 24/7 commitment, always learning and improving.
Tommy Sy: That’s fantastic advice, Tiffany. Thanks for sharing so much. It’s been a pleasure! 😊
Tiffany Tatum: Thank you, Tommy! I enjoyed it too.
As we wrap up this candid chat with Tiffany, we can’t help but thank BrillBabes for making this interview possible – the team behind some of the industry’s brightest stars! 🌟 If you’re inspired by Tiffany’s journey and see yourself stepping into a similar spotlight, don’t hesitate to reach out to BrillBabes and start your own story.
Curious about how it all began? Catch up on Part 1 of Tiffany’s interview here. And for more unfiltered interviews, check out these must-reads:
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Enjoy! 😉
